Year: 2019

Relationships

Siblings, but Strangers – Part 2

Over the next couple of weeks, I read everything written about the Scapegoat and Golden Child pattern. When I realized how the Golden Child qualities are almost the same as Avoidants (which I researched and wrote about here in 2016), I panicked because my ex-husband is an Avoidant.

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Relationships

Siblings, but Strangers – Part 1

At age 32, I wrapped up my life in New York in two weeks and moved in with Amin, my 30-year old brother in Seattle. I knew this day would come, but no one in my family had believed me.

My longest standing gripe with my parents was that they had not enabled us to have a strong sibling relationship…

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