Siblings, but Strangers
Part 1 At age 32, I wrapped up my life in New York in two weeks and moved in with Amin, my 30-year old brother
August 16, 2019
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Attachment Styles are patterns of how you think, feel, and behave in relationships.
Your Attachment Style forms in early childhood, and is based on how well you felt heard, seen, and understood by your parents.
INSECURE ATTACHMENT
In childhood, when you felt that you don’t matter or that you are fundamentally alone, you unconsciously put your guard up.
And you disconnected from your Authenticity, because you didn’t feel safe showing up as you are.
This created insecurity in your mental, emotional, and physical bodies.
SECURE ATTACHMENT
The path to secure attachment involves healing and freedom.
When you heal, you can let go of insecurities, limiting beliefs, and open new pathways that allow you to consciously respond rather than react to situations.
You can unlock your full potential when you reclaim your Authenticity.
PATTERNS TO PRESENCE
Patterns to Presence is a proven, step-by-step program to transform the patterns that keep you from creating authentic, secure relationships. Using a tried-and-tested roadmap, we guide you from insecure to secure attachment in just 4 weeks.
Part 1 At age 32, I wrapped up my life in New York in two weeks and moved in with Amin, my 30-year old brother
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